The other point, of course, given the original point of the post was about women being treated more harshly than anyone else in these cases, would anyone seriously WANT to be seen as "That uptight bitch who called the cops on poor socially awkward Joe accidentally putting his hand where he shouldn't when he'd had a jar too many? Christ, what is it with these blushing little Victorian flowers these days? Have they no sense of proportion?"

And yet, if the only option is "call the cops" where does that leave people who want to put a marker in the sand, just not that deep?